Being single doesn't have to be a bad thing. It is actually a blessing. I say this because while single, you can really work on yourself and your well being. I remember, while in a relationship I worked on a couple of the essential things of life that I am going to go over below. I never worked on or developed them all at once. Now that I am single, I am able to focus on all 5. Granted, I fall short more times than I want too, but while in a relationship I was very much distracted and of course an emotional wreck.
While growing and while being an adult, I have heard a few things said about money. It wasn't until I decided to chase my own financial freedom I started to hear these things from a different perspective. You know, as we grow older people or our family impose their views of money rather we ask them or not. Sometimes, some people don't realize they are given and opinion that was not ask for and your brain is forced to comprehend their point rather it has the knowledge or experience to form its own opinion or not. And since this happens to us at a very young age we grow up with the sense that money is bad.