When I knew I wasn't where I wanted to be or with who I wanted to be with it, it was hard for me to see value in what I deemed as a mistake or what I seen as being disobedient to God. I didn't want to feel regret but I wasn't proud either. Have you ever been in a place where you knew it was time to let go, but mentally you are still holding on to the past. Playing over and over different situations or events in your head. Meditating on all the things you allowed or the boundaries you didn't set.